Empowered YOU Membership
Sound familiar?
"I feel stuck. I know I need to make a change, but I don’t even know where to start."
"I’m tired of feeling alone in this. My friends don’t really get it, and I don’t want to keep venting with no solution."
“Tell me there’s a future for me now that my relationship has ended?”
"I just want to feel confident in my choices, whether that means staying, leaving, or learning to speak up."
"I give so much, but it feels like I’m the only one trying. Is it me?"
“I’m staying for the kids, but I still want to be happy; is there a way?”
"I keep second-guessing myself in relationships—why do I always end up here?"
It may sound familiar, but you deserve better.
You’re ready for change—you just don’t know what needs to change. I see this all the time. That’s why I created this membership: a safe, supportive, and interactive space where I guide you through the relationship struggles you can’t figure out on your own. You’ll get educational content, real discussions, and a community of like-minded people who get it.
💡 Founders Rate: $27 CAD/month (Lock this price in for as long as you stay!)
This Membership is for You If...
✔️ You feel stuck in your relationship and need clarity on what to do.
✔️ You want real tools and insights—not just generic advice.
✔️ You’re tired of feeling alone in your struggles.
✔️ You’re ready to focus on yourself and make empowered choices.
This Isn’t for You If...
❌ You’re looking for therapy (this is educational and supportive, not clinical).
❌ You want a quick fix without doing the inner work.
❌ You’re hoping to change someone else instead of focusing on your own growth.
It’s Ideal for...
⭐ People in long-term relationships who feel unheard, unseen, or unsure of their next steps.
⭐ Anyone recovering from a past relationship and wanting to break old patterns.
⭐ Those who want to strengthen their relationship with themselves and future partners.
Find Your Clarity: A Guided Membership for Stronger Relationships—Past, Present, or Future
This might just be the most powerful program I’ve ever created!
I’m excited to support you in a space where your voice matters. I’ll be creating content tailored to your needs, so you get the guidance that actually helps.
And most importantly—you’ll realize you’re not alone in this."
A Little About Me
On Paper…
I’m Dr. Elena Sherwood, a retired licensed therapist with 35 years of experience in couples therapy, a master’s degree in couples counseling, and a PhD in clinical research on relationships. I take a no-nonsense approach to relationship dynamics, and this membership is designed to help you break free from unhealthy patterns. With my deep clinical expertise and real-world coaching strategies, you’ll gain practical skills, expert guidance, and a supportive community to help you navigate your relationship challenges with clarity and confidence.
In Real Life…
My work is deeply personal. Sometimes, I wonder if I subconsciously chose this career just to give myself a fighting chance at this thing called love.
As a first-generation immigrant, I grew up in a home where love was never in question—but survival was. My parents, hardworking and devoted, had bigger worries: job security, adapting to Canadian life, making sure we had a future. Emotional health, validating feelings, and learning to use my voice? Those weren’t priorities. Sound familiar? Many of us know what it feels like to be overlooked.
I’ve been married for 32 years, and we have two wonderful sons. My husband’s military career meant long stretches of separation, adapting to a culture neither of us grew up in, and raising a family in a remote northern town—three days’ drive from the nearest support system I knew.
So, when I talk about relationships, I’m not just speaking from theory—I’ve lived it. I’ve studied it. I’ve walked alongside thousands of couples figuring it out. And here’s what I know for sure:
If you want happiness, you have to build it yourself.
You can put too much on your partner—expecting them to be your therapist, best friend, and the one who makes everything feel okay. That’s a weight no one person should have to carry.
If you want a solid, lasting relationship, you BOTH have to build that.
Relationship problems don’t always mean there’s something wrong between you—sometimes, the outside world is what’s tearing you down.
Don’t be an island. Speak up in your relationship, and listen with intention.
Some relationships do more harm than good.
Not all relationships are meant to last.
Sometimes, your partner isn’t fighting you—they’re fighting to reach you, past your walls and defenses.
Someone who doesn’t want to change, won’t. No amount of hoping, waiting, or bending over backward will change that. I’ve learned this not just about relationships, but about my own clients. Not everyone who comes to me truly wants to change. I don’t take them on, because I pour everything into the people I help—and that only works if they’re ready to meet me halfway.
This work isn’t about finding quick fixes or fairy-tale endings. It’s about facing the truth, reclaiming your power, and making choices that serve you. And if you’re ready for that, you’re in the right place.
What the heck will we do in this membership you ask?
Frequently Asked Questions
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You’ll get ongoing support, expert guidance, and a community that truly gets it. This isn’t just more relationship advice—it’s a space where you can ask questions, get personalized insights, and feel seen. I’ll be creating content based on what you need, so you get real, actionable tools to help you move forward.
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This membership will take place in Slack, an easy-to-use app available on both desktop and mobile. You can check in whenever it fits your schedule—no complicated logins, no overwhelming platforms. Just a simple, private space where you can connect, learn, and grow.
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At minimum, the membership will be available through the end of 2025—but my hope is that it becomes a long-term space for growth and support. If the response is as strong as I believe it will be, I’ll keep it going for years to come!